Archive for February, 2010

4
Feb

It’s actually kind of sweet.

   Posted by: Sandi    in Autism, Life

Due to Builder’s public safety issues at school, we have put him on Homebound Education through the district for the time being, while he is under medical and psychological treatment.

That all sounds kind of intimidating, doesn’t it?

Today, we went to the psychologist. I’ll call her Dr. K’nex, because she’s got the coolest stuff in her office.   She and I catch up on the latest in the Life and Mind O’Builder before she has time just with him while I wait in the reception area.

What I thought was kind of sweet was that she is concerned for me. *smile* I don’t think I look any more frazzled than normal and I am not pale nor do I have really obvious circles under my eyes today.  She is just concerned that I am with my little Special Needs guy twenty-four seven without a respite. Much. Maybe a few hours in the wee sma’s, but that’s about it.

Thing is, I’ve done this before.  I have. I am convinced that God doesn’t send anything to us without providing the tools with which to handle it.  My life has included much more than my formal education (though that has helped) and I am fully convinced that God is able to pull me through this time, too.

I figure there’s a light at the end of the tunnel.  It’s not an oncoming train.  I feel that this will not go on forever.  Someday, my little guy will be able to better manage his anxiety issues.  Someday, he’ll get back to sleeping in a regular pattern. (Though why he should, when his own mom has a sleep problem, is beyond me.)  Someday, he’ll be back to school at least for part of the day and I will have time to myself again. And Dr. K’nex will not have to be concerned for my mental health as well as my son’s.

But until then, I’m hanging on.  And I’m going to try to get to the movies this weekend.  I was thinking of maybe An Education or The Book of Eli.

Or maybe I’ll just escape with my Kindle and head to the riverbank with some Chinese food with a silent salute to Dr. K’nex.

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3
Feb

Scouting

   Posted by: Sandi    in Writing

All right, so I’m not a movie director.  Not a cinematographer. I am a storyteller.

For some of my stories, I have had to rely on research and imagination to flesh out my locales. In my historical fiction, I delve back centuries and rediscover a land that isn’t even there, anymore.  I rely on scholarly reports and extensive reading, as well as pictures of ruins and educated artists’ renderings.

But for my more contemporary work, I really have to have had my own experiences with a place to write it effectively.  This is for me and for my readers. I want to give my readers a genuine experience when I take them with me in my imagination.  Silent Music was written in a locale where I had lived, though I switched up details of a housing development.  I knew the area, knew what it smelled like, knew the sounds.  An Unexpected Woman was set in my current town of residence, allowing me to bring a great deal of authenticity to the details.

For the next contemporary inspirational romance, I want to be as authentic.  So I went scouting.

Now, I’m not going to reveal the house I found that will serve as the “main set” of my novel.  I do, though, have some other pictures to show you.

Here is a funny sign at the Sanibel Visitor Center:

This is a look at a local restaurant.  Aren’t those colors indicative of South Florida?

This was a fairly common site, as bicycling is often faster on the island than trying to maneuver a car along narrow roads:

Though the day was overcast, I was able to find some lovely scenery shots, too. This is one of my favorites, taken right on the shore of the Gulf of Mexico: 

In addition to these pictures, I took pages of notes of observations.  Smells I encountered, sounds that caught my notice, and small details that don’t really translate well to a picture, but that my characters will notice for sure.

This story will be taking place directly after the fictional hurricane from my novel An Unexpected Woman.  Currently, I’m calling it An Unexpected Man…but that’s only a working title.  ;-)

I also picked up a phone book with the local businesses as well as menus for a couple of the “eateries.”

I had a terrific day.  I want to thank the Spousal Unit and my sons, Cyclone and Builder, for putting up with mom and her wish to capture the moments.

:)

Please note: All pictures in this post are copyrighted by me, Sandi Layne, 2010  Please do not use without permission. Thank you!

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